Getting Settled with Kids in Oxford
(and a Few Short Trips Once You Are Settled)
 

© Lynne Siemens 1995-


[ Introduction | Thank yous | Notes | Oxford | Shopping | Restaurants | Entertainment/Recreation | Daycare/Schools | Accommodation | Travel | Health Care | Resources | Hints and Tips ]


Contents


Introduction
When my family and I first decided to go to Oxford for three months last fall, I felt a bit at a loss at what my one-year-old daughter and I would do during the day when my husband was busy in the libraries. As a result, I faced the trip with some apprehension. However, when we arrived in Oxford, I found many great things to do with my daughter. (Some weeks, we almost had too many activities.) From this experience, I have put together this book to help other parents and children prepare for their time in Oxford. As you will read below, there is no shortage of activities both in Oxford and around the county and country for children of all ages. The only problem will be deciding what to do. I have also tried to share some of the lessons that we learned about living in England. Hopefully, these hints and tips will help you avoid the same problems. Enjoy your time in Oxford! L.S.

Thank Yous
I would like to give special thanks for several people. First, thanks to our friend Joanne Woolway who helped us find our housing and was a useful source of information and biscuits and tea. Second, thanks to Suzanne Custance who provided the roof over our heads and many books to read and who tolerated fingerprints and misplaced tupperware. Third, appreciation to Vicki Cullen at the New Parent Network who provided much of the input for the Childcare and Toddler Groups section. A very special thanks to the many women and children that I met at the various Toddler Groups; without you, the three months would have been very lonely. And finally, of course, thank you to my husband, Ray, and daughter, Kate. Without you guys, I would never have made the trip, much less put the book together. When is our next trip?

Notes
The information in this book was complied over the fall of 1995. The book is laid out by subject area covering just about any topic that child or parent needs to know to enjoy Oxford and England. Addresses and phone numbers are provided when possible. One can assume that phone numbers are on the Oxford Exchange (01865) unless stated otherwise.

Many of the groups, stores, hours of operation, etc listed tend to be fluid in motion. Call ahead to confirm the information. Please let me know of any updates so that others can benefit.


Oxford
Oxford has been described by poets as "that sweet city with her dreaming spires." This description accurately represents the city and its atmosphere. Of course, most people know Oxford for its famous university, but there is much more to the city. According to legend, in the 4th century, St. Frideswide founded a priory on the site where a thunderbolt saved her from the undesired attentions of a King. From this site, the priory drew upon its strategic location on two rivers and grew into a trading town, known as Oxford. By the 11th century, the city was recognized as one of the chief towns in England.

In the 12th century, groups of scholars began to meet in Oxford and established the first colleges. By 1990, 36 colleges had been formed. Presently, there are 13,000 undergraduates and 4,200 graduate students. Among its famous graduates include Margaret Thatcher, Rowan Atkinson (Mr. Bean and Black Adder), and, notoriously, Hugh Grant.

In addition to its academic side, Oxford has a large-scale manufacturing base, specifically for automobiles. William Morris established a car factory in 1912 and produced the MG and the Austin Mini. The Rover factory still produces cars in city.

Neighborhoods

Today, Oxford has many diverse neighbourhoods in which its population of 130,000 make their homes. Each neighbourhood exhibits its own character and types of properties. Of concern to the short term visitor, rental rates tend to vary between areas. The main neighbourhoods are:

  1. Central North Oxford -- This neighbourhood, within walking distance of the university around Woodstock and Banbury Roads, has large individual houses and several apartment blocks. The rents tend to be the highest in this area.
  2. Central Oxford (City Centre) - The City Centre is defined by High and St. Giles Streets and Long Wall Road. The majority of Oxford University's colleges are based in this area and own most of the property. As a result, there are few rental properties. High, Cornmarket, and Queen Streets are the chief shopping areas.
  3. Summertown -- This area, north of City Centre, is around Banbury and Marston Ferry Roads. There are many Victorian and Edwardian homes with several apartment blocks. Rents decrease as one moves away from City Centre.
  4. St. Clements -- St. Clements is east of City Centre along St. Clements Street. The neighborhood is a fast developing area with small modern developments alongside older property.
  5. Headington -- This neighbourhood, established in the 1930's, is along Headington Road and Headley Way east of City Centre. There is a shopping centre in the area. Brookes University is also located here.
  6. Marston -- Marston is next to Summertown along Marston Ferry Road. Houses in this neighbourhood are described by some to be "functional, not attractive."
  7. Jericho -- This neighbourhood is west of St. Giles, near City Centre. The narrow streets are lined with terraced-town 100 year-old cottages.
  8. Osney -- Osney is along Botley Road and Thames Street, close to the railway station. The area is similar to Jericho.
  9. South Oxford -- South Oxford is centred around Abingdon Road. It has narrow streets with terraced turn-of-the-century houses. It is within walking distance of City Centre and rents become less expensive as one moves south.
  10. Wolvercote -- The neighbourhood is along the Western Bypass and overlooks the Common Land Meadows and river. It has a rural ambience.
  11. East Oxford -- East Oxford is between Headington and Cowley Roads. It has older style property.
  12. Botley and Cumnor -- These neighbourhoods are west of City Centre with both older style and modern homes. One links to City Centre with Park & Ride bus service.
  13. Iffley -- This neighbourhood, along Iffley Road, has been characterized as a village within the city with its quiet neighbourhoods.

Shopping
Oxford has a wide variety of shops, specializing in everything from books to toys, to meet the needs of parents and children. The information provided below includes addresses and phone numbers of most stores. One can assume the phone numbers are on the Oxford Exchange (01865) unless stated otherwise.

Book Stores

Children Clothing Stores

Charity Shops

These stores carry used goods such as toys, books, and clothing for children. North Americans know these as "thrift stores."

Craft Supplies Stores

Department Stores

British department stores, as in North America, carry a variety of goods for children, such as clothes, toys, strollers, etc.

Discount Stores

These store are similar to the "Loonie" or "Dollar" Stores in North America and carry a variety of household goods, books, toys, and other items at a reduced price.

Drug Stores

The following is a list of the larger drugstores which carry more than just drugs. There are also many neighbourhood chemists (pharmacists). Just a warning: chemists rotate Sundays openings. The local newspapers list the chemists that are open on a particular Sunday.

Furniture Stores-Second Hand

Grocery Stores

The following list of grocery stores include pick-your-own places which, as the name implies, allow one to pick fruit from the tree.

Pram (Strollers) Retailers

Toy Stores

Other Sources For Used Equipment


Restaurants
The following list of restaurants are ones that are friendly to children.

Entertainment/Recreation
Activities for children are endless in Oxford. The following list is just a sample of the range available. Phone numbers have been given where available.

Basketball

Bicycling

Cinemas

Community Centres

These centres provide a wide range of activities from play groups to after school clubs to organized sports. Call the centre in your neighbourhood for more information.

Croquet

Dance

Drop-in Centres

The drop-in centres are open everyday for people to drop in with their children to stay as long as needed to restore sanity. There are lots of messy play, toys, open spaces, and food.

Golf

Gym Classes

Horseriding

Ice Skating

Leisure Centres & Sports Centres

These centres, like community centres, run a variety of activities. Please contact each centre for a list of its activities.

Libraries

The services for children include stories and books, story times, music, and tapes/videos. A free membership can be obtained through one of the branches. Just a note, before a non-resident can sign out books, a permanent resident of Oxfordshire must recommend them for membership.

Branches:

Museums

Music

Outdoor Activities

Parks/Garden

There are many parks in Oxford with activities ranging from horseriding, mountain biking, fossil hunting, to picnic areas and more.

Skateboarding

  • Skateboard Ramp, Manzil Way, East Oxford Health Centre
  • Swimming

    These pools have parent & toddler swim times.

    Theatres

    Toddler Groups

    These groups are generally run by volunteer groups in each neighbourhood and open to anyone. A small fee is usually charged which covers the cost of coffee, juices, biscuits, and toys. These groups tend to be fluid in nature so call ahead for information.

    Tours

    Toy Libraries

    These libraries lend toys for babies, toddlers, and school-aged children for a small charge. My daughter and I found these libraries a good place to meet people and borrow new and (often bigger) toys. In fact, we would not have packed as many toys if we know these places existed.

    Other Activities

    Information Sources

    The sources listed below can provide information on events and activities for children.

    Daycare/Schools
    For those families who require some childcare, there are a variety of options in Oxford.

    Childminders

    Childminders are individuals who offer childcare in their own homes. The age and number of children under 8 years for which they can care is set at registration with Social Services. Parents and childminders negotiate the fees, the hours, and details of the day-to-day arrangements. Children's Information Service (more details below) or Social Services (815329) can provide a list of childminders. Rates tend to start at approximately 2 pounds per hour.

    Nurseries

    Nurseries provide more organized care than childminders and offer it on a part- or full-time basis. These are similar to day cares in North America. The various nurseries include:

    Private Day Nurseries: These nurseries offer a year round service for children between 0- 5 years. The hours of operation tend to cater to working parents.

    Work Place Nurseries: These nurseries are offered by an employer or by a private concern, and are hosted by an employer on or near the workplace. They take children between 0-5 years during the parents' working hours. Some nurseries have limited spaces for children of non-employees.

    Local Authority Nurseries: These nurseries are generally attached to a school and fall under the authority of the Education Department. As a result, they follow the term pattern of local schools. Since there are no charges, there tends to be a wait list Children are offered a place when they are 3-4 years of age.

    The following list provides names and addresses of the nurseries in Oxford:

    Playgroups

    Playgroups offer part-time childcare for groups of children who are between 2 - 5 years. These groups offer the care on a morning or afternoon session basis and usually in a community premises such as a church hall or community centres. Most close during school holidays. The playgroups are voluntary bodies and use volunteer parents and carers to assist the employed staff. Funding comes from fees and fundraising. For the nearest playgroup, one should contact the local community centre or Children's Information Service, 882288.

    Afterschool and Holiday Care

    Afterschool care is offered outside of school hours and term times. It is generally run through schools and community centres for children between the age of 5-11 years. For more information, contact the local community centre or the Children's Information Service, 882288.

    Nannies

    Nannies offer childcare in the child's home, either on a daily or live- in bases. Parents act as employers and are responsible for National Insurance contributions, tax, conditions of employment, etc. The average rate in Oxford is around 4 pounds per hour.
  • Nanny Agencies:
  • Nanny at Last, Middleway Cotteslowe, 326227
  • nans (Oxford Aunts), 2 George St., 791017
  • Oxford Nannies, 34 Union St, 721511
  • Rocking Horse Childcare, 62 St. Johns Street, 516688
  • Creches

    Creches offer care for a morning or afternoon on a casual basis for a small fee. They are staffed by trained personnel. On the first visit, one should bring two contact names, name of a doctor, and information on allergies plus two diapers.

    Schools

    For a list of state schools, contact the Oxfordshire Education Authority, Macclesfield House, New Road, 815449.

    Information Sources


    Accommodation

    Property Letting and Management Agencies

    There are several property letting and management agencies in Oxford which can assist one to arrange accommodation generally for a minimum of six months and longer.

    Agencies

    Other Sources


    Travel in and out of Oxford

    In Oxford

    Besides getting around by one's own feet, Oxford has two bus lines that cover the city and beyond. The two companies are the Oxford Bus Company and the Thames Transit which both provide bus service within the city, Park & Ride from the suburbs, and into London (city centre and airports). Within the city, one pays by the distance traveled with the option of purchasing passes for zones. The bus drivers sell tickets. Bus schedules are available at the library and various travel agents. There is a high degree of competition between the bus lines which leads to price wars. For more information on bus routes and fares, call Oxford Bus Company (711312) and Thames Transit (772250).

    Out of Oxford

    Once one gets settled, there is much in England to explore. London is an obvious choice for sightseeing, but there is much more to the country. Listed below is but a small sample of what is available.

    London

    Great Britain

    France

    There are many ways to get to France -- ferry, chunnel, and plane. We enjoyed a quick trip to the western area of the country. However, the country can be very expensive. A MacDonald's meal for 2 was approximately $20 Cdn. We found that it is cheaper to rent a car in France than to rent one in England and drive it across. This was primarily due to the extra insurance that has to be purchased to drive a car in France.

    Health Care

    Health System

    England has a public health care system much like Canada's. The government provides a full range of medical services for all residents regardless of income. The system is financed through general taxation. Health treatment is free to nationals of EEA countries and to people from other countries which have reciprocal agreements with Britain. Unfortunately, Canada is not one of these countries. While Canadians can access the health system, including the doctors at the local health clinics, they must pay for their usage of it. Luckily, provincial health care plans will cover a portion of the cost of some medical services in England. Additional travel medical insurance, which can be purchased through a travel agent, is highly recommended.

    Hospitals


    Resources
    I have listed below books that might be useful when preparing to live and travel in England. Many of these books are available through public libraries and bookstores. 

    Books

    Other Information Sources

    Once one is settled in Oxford, the following information sources can provide information that can facilitate life.

    Vocabulary

    Though one will be living in an English speaking country, that does not mean that there will not be any misunderstandings. The following translations of North American English to British English should help ease the language barriers. The Lonely Plant Guide for England has a more comprehensive list.
     
    North American English British English
    stroller
    push cart

    pram

    diapers 
    nappies
    underwear 
    knickers
    fanny pack 
    bum bag
    downtown 
    city centre
    bus 
    coach
    cups 
    beakers
    crib 
    cot
    apartment 
    flat
    soother 
    dummy
    sweater 
    jumper


    Hints and Tips for (Almost) Trouble-Free Existence Below, are hints and tips that our family gathered as the result of our experiences in England. Please use them is they make sense for your situation.

    London

    • One day fare cards are available for 2.80 Pound (children under five are free) for unlimited travel on the transport system within Zone 1 and 2. Most of the popular attractions are located within these zones.
    • The Underground is not overly stroller-friendly because it is located several stories below street level. Few stops have elevators to carry passengers to platforms which means that one has to carry a stroller up and down the stairs. Needless to say, this can become tiring by the end of the day. Our response was to limit the use of the Underground. Others use backpacks to carry their children.

    Visiting Sites

    Travel

    Banking

    Misc.


    Getting Settled with Kids in Oxford. [Full Stride Publications, Baby Steps 1]. Lynne Siemens.

    Copyright (c) 1995, 1999, 2004- by the author, all rights reserved, and may be used and shared in accordance with the fair-use provisions of U.S. copyright law. Archiving and redistribution for profit, or republication of this text in any medium, requires the consent of the author and Full Stride Publications.

    [Last updated: September 10, 1997; 1999, 2004.]


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